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Think about/journal the following questions

Where do your stories come from?

The stories you tell about relationships

The stories you tell about relationships

  1. What stories are you carrying? How helpful and unhelpful are they?
  2. How are the stories you tell yourself influenced by  family, friends, relationships and society?
  3. What experiences have shaped the stories you tell yourself about your world?
  4. What stories are you carrying that might not be true?
  5. Are you carrying stories that aren't actually yours to carry?
  6. What stories might you want to let go of, change or rewrite?

The stories you tell about relationships

The stories you tell about relationships

The stories you tell about relationships

  1. What have your learned from your relationships with friends, family and your romantic relationships?
  2. Are there patterns you notice in the relationships you have with different people?
  3. What do relationships from your past or present tell you about yourself?
  4. What stories about your relationships are you carrying that might not be true?
  5. What stories about relationships might you want to let go of, change or rewrite?


Your grief story

The stories you tell about relationships

Your confidence story

  1. What did you lose, let go of, or miss that makes you very sad and causes you to grieve?
  2. Have you allowed yourself to grieve in the past, or do you push grief away?
  3. How was grief expressed by those close to you as you grew up?
  4. What does grief typically feel like in your body?  Where do you hold grief the most?
  5. What does 'grief' personally mean to you?
  6. How might allowing grief, help you?

Your confidence story

Your purpose in life story

Your confidence story

  1. Would you say you are a confident person?
  2. Think about what affects your confidence in different situations and at different times?
  3. Think of someone who you see as confident and list the things that make them appear confident.
  4. Do you stop yourself from doing things because you lack confidence? If so, what have you stopped yourself from doing?
  5. Looking at the list below which areas of your life do you lack confidence. Choose 1 or 2 areas and write about your thoughts and feelings:

  • Friendships
  • Relationships
  • Work/study
  • Managing money
  • My health
  • My body
  • Completing tasks

    

Your purpose in life story

Your purpose in life story

Your purpose in life story

  1. What is the theme of your life? For e..g. your colours, theme music, movies, books...
  2. What matters most to you?
  3. Who relies on you?
  4. Who inspires you?
  5. What gets you out of bed in the morning?
  6. What causes do you care about?
  7. What are your 'be' goals? For e.g. who do you want to be...a good friend, leader, teacher, fun loving, carefree, a difference maker?
  8. What are your 'do' goals? It can be helpful to align your do goals with your be goals. For e.g. if you want to be a difference maker how can you do that?

Your body image story

Your purpose in life story

Your purpose in life story

  1. How do you picture your body?
  2. What do you think about your body?
  3. How do you feel about your body?
  4. As you were growing up, what were the messages about your body that you heard?
  5. As you were growing up, did other people in your life comment on their own bodies in a negative way?
  6. Do other people's comments about your body affect you?
  7. When you look at pictures of people who you think have beautiful bodies, what do you see?
  8. List 3 things you love about your body.


Places to visit if you need more information & help

The following links will take you to organisations that are accredited and reviewed for their information and tools.  They are evidence based and may help you to understand what you are feeling and where you can go for further help and support. Please remember - mental health is an individual thing, we are all different.  What works for one person may not work for someone else.  If you are struggling with your mental health please see your doctor and discuss what might be helpful for you.

Mindspot

Mindspot is part of Macquarie Health, Macquarie University. It is a free digital psychological website where you can do a depression or anxiety quiz and then get help with appropriate treatments if you need.


https://www.mindspot.org.au

Beyond Blue

If you are wondering whether you have anxiety or depression or both, many doctors and mental health professionals use a tool called the K10.  Beyond Blue have an online version (see the link below) where you can complete the questionnaire and get your results immediately. You can then take this to your doctor if you think you need further help.


https://www.beyondblue.org.au/mental-health/k10

Moodgym

Moodgym is a free interactive program to help identify whether you are having problems with things like depression and anxiety and learn skills to support your mental health.  It is a program that uses Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). CBT is a type of psychological approach which considers the way you think and how you behave.  There are 5 online modules which will help you to understand how your thinking affects your behaviour, and learn and practise skills to prevent and treat anxiety and depression.


https://www.moodgym.com.au/

SANE Australia

SANE is a website that addresses the needs of people with complex mental health issues and trauma. Not only does it provide information and resources for people experiencing more complex mental health issues but family and friends can also get help and support here too.


https://www.sane.org/

Black Dog Institute

Black Dog Institute is a medical research institute that investigates mental health across the life span. Here you will find information and  research informed resources on anxiety, depression, post traumatic stress disorder, bipolar disorder and suicide. There are even some creative art suggestions along with digital tools and fact sheets.  Check them out in the link below.


https://www.blackdoginstitute.org.au/resources-support/

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